One draft of eulogy

We as family, would like to Thank everyone who helped us do the arrangements all of you who has known , her for months and years,helped her in many ways. Reena Mary Mathew touched a lot of lives. She had friends and family also willing to do anything for her.JIm,and Her friend ren,who helped looked after her cat, Maria are all part of God's helpers esp sent to help Reena was my feeling GOD BLESS U and your fly abundantly.Roy, and family, Roshini sarah and family ,thank u all for being there for Reena and helping her in her time of need. I know she loved all of you and was always concerned about your parents and your wellbeing. She had special respect and love and concern for my parents and other uncles and aunts too.Her love and affection for grand parents ,older grand uncles and aunts, family members ,she loved young ones too all our kids and other children ,sponsored for kids in need, had a smile, gentle nature,always had some gift for them ,played with them,entertained them.Mary was a sensitive,gentle,smiling,wonderful warm hearted,perfect host, kept home clean and cooked food ,loved animals and birds too. she always tried to do things on her own. did not like to impose. When she was becoming weak, knew she may need help. but did not want to trouble her parents, siblings or anyone else. She did not want to leave Chicago, was worried about troubling others. . she would have volunteered her services. Mary would have stayed alone. only i think we were more worried, about her health . Mum said " Reena was a concerned ,loving person,Always helping others,kind to everybody .ROy And family Thanking you for the Good care you took of her.God bless REENA alwaysMAY God help her and be with her and may her soul rest in peace." DAD said" Reena ,was a Great blessing for all.Had Faith in God.Church going till last moment,Concern about animals, living things,extreme concern for parents,Remembered birthdays, mothers day, sent gift for mum's b'day recently (sept)too." My parents wanted to come but since they are far said they were sad remember her in prayers. My in laws had the chance to visit Chicago , She told us all to stay at her place,my fil was saying he still treasures the gift he was given. Aunt came she came with her to visit us in detriot.and would check about her cat angel. Gigich" finds this a very emotional and sorrowful " Shereen aunty,dubai wrote ." I remember Aju used to talk very highly of Reena / she came to see me in Dec to condole for Sameer ,in '96 it was @ x'mas i think , beautiful child ,may she rest in Peace ._" many family members have sent their thoughts and feelings and condolences . Mary mathew after she left Chicago tried to keep in touch by email " seemed aware of what she was going through , was sad she could not attend Roshini sarah's wedding and roy could not go either. when an aunt passed away she said how sad . she went to heaven,-I am sure she is also in God's presence now. she had fun when cousins Anujee and suni visited her , she also told me she cried.In all her mails she enquired about all and sent love to all.GOD BLESS HER SOUL> MAY SHE REST IN PEACE> GOd give each and every one the strength during this time. Thank you all once again.